Son of the nature

 

If someone with speech & language therapy experience, or just the passion and skill to play and communicate with child with delayed speech, boys games, rock climbing, horse riding etc., in English, interested in spending one month in China/Yunnan, I am offering room & board Dali home-stay for exchange.

Roughly ten hours per week, easy work :)

  

If I was ever assigned a mission, it was to help you locate and connect to the things that brighten up your eyes.

 

2010年,小双鱼出生在北京,18个月的时候在内蒙草原他追着羊群满山跑,什么语言都不愿意运用的他,边追边喊,sheep, shee, shee-eep!

2012年我决定让他在大自然中成长; 2013年我们搬到了云南大理。

 

耶鲁大学儿童研究中心把沙利文定义为高功能自闭症儿童,搬回美国,接受治疗,能帮助他去学会日常中不能做的事情,那是教授的建议。融入群体,当然重要,训练我们不会置忘。然而作为妈妈,最重要的大概是帮助他去寻找和发展可以让他眼睛发亮的事情,而这些,不是治疗师可以给我答案的。教授说,我尊重你的意见。

 

July 2017

The mysteries of CAPD  神奇的中枢听觉处理障碍

When we were taking a canoe down the stream, we saw crocodiles in the water, peacocks in the trees, I pointed to Sullivan, can you see the peacocks? His eyes were fixed in the air and said, deer. The guide smiled and said, there's no deer here. One minute down the stream, we suddenly saw a small group of deer in the bushes, a king with 4 female deer. Some time later we were looking at kingfishers, he said, orangutan. The one minute later, we saw a red monkey on the tree. When we were reaching the bank, he said, tiger!

今天我忽然在想,沙利文是否能听到动物存在的声音。划船时看见鳄鱼,孔雀,向导给我们指孔雀的位置,说,看见了吗?我说,沙利文,你看见孔雀了吗?他说,deer. 我说,不是鹿,是孔雀,就在那。向导也笑笑,没有鹿。船往前划了一分钟左右,果真看见草丛里有几头鹿,其中一个是雄壮的公鹿,大大的角,他旁边还有几只小鹿。再往前划时看见翠鸟,沙利文说,orangutan猩猩. 一分钟后我们看见了红色的猴子;快上岸时,他说,tiger. 还好,我们往大象养殖中心走了。

 

 

 

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six years 晃着晃着就长大了

 

we moved to Dali, along the Tea and Horse Caravans, in 2013, when he was three. 

 

 

Hello goat, hello boy - he spotted them from far away

穿轮滑鞋的牧羊童 -滑着滑着突然不走了,奔向草地说羊,树后果真藏了两只羊

 

 

June, 2015

 

一边吃鸡蛋他一边说 “egg,W,eggs (鸡蛋,W,鸡蛋)”,可是鸡蛋第一个字母不是W呀,后来意识到,他在说 “鸡蛋,W,X (X/eggs 跟鸡蛋复数同音)”!

  He was saying 'egg, W, eggs'. I was wondering where he got the idea that egg starts with W, then I realized, he was saying 'egg, W, X (and eggs)!

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沙利文学会了逻辑反驳法,每天泡澡前我的诱惑语是,洗白白,然后movie。睡觉前,他说movie,我说明天,然后他说,bajibaji xibaibai, movie 意译为你说过的,洗白白然后movie 

 

 

Dec., 2015

bedtime story, after three stories, he still said, read; tonight we learn words "hat, mat, cat; ham, jam..." after 8 words, he went to turn off the light and said goodnight.

昨晚讲故事,讲了三篇,他还说read;今晚认押韵系列单词, 认了两页(8个),他下床去关灯,说goodnight :D 

 

Jan. 2016

I showed him jackfruit and told him that's called Jackfruit, he's very excited to discover "Jack's fruit" (from Halloweenland), and kept naming it all the way in the jackfruit field.

 

 

March 15, 2016

age 6, this may be the first successful/full back-forth conversation we had:

while getting Sullivan up for school, I said to him: time to get up, school bus;

he was sitting up, and said, train, airplane.

where do you want to go in the airplane?

 

(auntie) Lizzy 

 

June 25, 2016

有些知识我不知道是不是与生俱来的,这是他的第一次生离死别,我把沙利文带到房间,说五哥走了(此时五平躺在毯子上,身旁是一些小物品,鱼干,猫,狗模型),沙利文什么都没说,蹲下就开始小心翼翼地用告别丝巾裹起它的身子。 This is yet the first death Sullivan saw, I brought him to the room, he didn't say anything and started wrapping him; after putting Wu in the hole gently, he picked up the shovel and started burying. I wonder if some memories were born with us.

 

 

 

July, 2016

making friends

 

one of the games he likes to play these days is "cheek to forehead", "mouth to ear", "nose to chin"... body parts practice. Today he was getting upset and wanted to bite my chin, I said no, then he said, teeth to chin

 

 

April, 2017

His first creative poem:

When the cat is a good boy, 

he shall have fish and chips;

but when he does nothing but cry,

he shall have nothing but tomatoes;

when he does nothing but (be) happy,

he shall have nothing but brownies;

but when he does nothing but (be) angry,

he shall have nothing but onions.

 

my scooter ran out of battery going uphill, so I told Sullivan, you get off and walk up the hill, I don't have enough battery to ride both of us. He got off without saying a word (as usual), then the next second, he's pushing my bike from behind and all the way till the top. #暖男子的成长里程碑

 

June 2017

第一次自己穿越温泉男浴室。刚开始进去时我在门口看着他,他走进去几秒钟后出来瞄瞄,看见我在那想出来找我,我指着里面说,进去,I will meet you by the pool. 他进进出出几次,带着不确定。后来他进去,我直接跑到浴室后门,等了一分钟没见人,我又跑回入口,还是没有,我又跑到浴室出口,在那喊sullivan!看见一名年轻男子准备进浴室,我说,里面有个穿蓝色泳衣的小男孩,混血儿,你能把他带出来吗?男子指着池边隐蔽处,说,在那呢。

 

 

 

 Sullivan's trip to Nepal 沙利文的尼泊尔路上

 

#blend with the nature

#raising child with autism

 

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